My partner reacted to tragic miscarriage and baby loss by lying and cheating on me

I am 20 and he is 22. We didn’t plan to have a baby but were both happy.

The doctor sent me to hospital and I could not get hold of my partner via text or phone calls.

Eventually he messaged, saying he was stuck on a job, which I later found out was a lie.

Two weeks later I caught him arranging a date with another girl.

I never thought he’d react to the miscarriage by cheating. Is it because he’s hurt? What can I do to make things better?

DEIDRE SAYS: The way he is acting is selfish and immature. Maybe he hasn’t got the understanding to support you and deal with his own grief.

But the trouble is, there are no signs he’s going to develop that soon.

I am sad to say I think you will make things better for yourself by breaking with him and finding the understanding you need through the Miscarriage Association, (, on 01924 200 799).

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