My partner doesn't want to have sex ever since our baby was born

DEAR DEIDRE: MY boyfriend doesn’t want sex but blames it on me.

We had a baby nine months ago and the last time we had sex was when I conceived. He says it’s my fault because I don’t initiate sex.


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I don’t, but that’s because he doesn’t either. He always has an excuse – and it’s always my fault. We’re both 28. It makes me feel rubbish.

He’s even suggested I go and get sex from someone else. I don’t know how much more I can take.

I wouldn’t say I was obsessed with sex. I just want more than I’m getting.

DEIDRE SAYS: He may see you differently now you are a mum so break the pattern by coming on strong to him. Model the sort of sexy behaviour you’d like from him.

If he turns you down, ask what is putting him off so you can maybe make changes accordingly.

My e-leaflet Reviving A Man’s Sex Drive explains self-help sex therapy.

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