My girlfriend wants me to go through her phone to check she's not cheating

DEAR DEIDRE: MY girlfriend told me to keep checking her phone to prove she won’t cheat again, but I don’t want to do that.

She slept with another guy and broke my heart.


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I only found out because I saw a message from him.

We are both 18 and have been together since we were 15.

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She says the other guy meant nothing and was a mistake.

But I don’t know if I can ever trust her again.

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DEIDRE SAYS: Your girlfriend thinks letting you see her phone will fix things, but she needs to understand that rebuilding trust takes time, effort and communication.

You need to understand why she cheated in order to move forward.

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