DEAR DEIDRE: I THINK my boyfriend’s manhood is fine but he wants to spend £2,000 on surgery to enlarge it. I would rather we put that money towards our wedding instead.
He’s 28 and I love him with all my heart. I’m 26.
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We’ve been engaged for 18 months and to me, our wedding seems a much better use of the money.
If I’m the only woman he is going to have sex with, shouldn’t my opinion matter?
I told him I didn’t want him spending money on something like that but he won’t listen.
In the heat of the moment he told me he is not sure about marrying me. Am I overreacting?
DEIDRE SAYS: You are not overreacting but you do need a clearer idea of what lies behind him believing enlargement surgery is a priority, especially as no surgery is without risk.
My e-leaflet Manhood Too Small? should help you both to start talking about this more rationally.
Skill and sensitivity, not inches, are what make a good lover. But does he genuinely feel sexually inadequate, or is it that he feels his preferences in life are being overwhelmed by ambitious wedding plans?
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