DEAR DEIDRE: I’ve been secretly seeing a married man, and weirdly now I feel cheated on.
Things between us were good at first because I felt special – things with his wife weren’t great so I felt like I was there for him, filling a need in a way that no one else could.
He couldn’t get enough of me and was constantly calling, messaging and turning up at my flat late at night.
I’m 39 and he’s 43.
But now the calls are less frequent and normally it’s me who rings and our secret visits have stopped.
I think he’s having a new affair – probably with someone younger and more beautiful than me.
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I feel so used. I want to ask him, but I’m scared to rock the boat because I don't want to lose him entirely.
DEIDRE SAYS: There are many possible reasons why he doesn’t feel any obligation to remain faithful to his wife, so chances are he won't be with you either.
There’s no future with this man.
I’m sending you my support pack Your Lover Not Free to explain the pitfalls of this kind of relationship.
Please see this relationship for what it is – a dead end. You deserve someone who can commit to you.
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