I can see how much he is struggling. He only lasts a couple of minutes. His fears are fuelled by having been cheated on in the past. He thinks I will look for someone else who can last longer.
I have told him it doesn’t bother me, as sex is not the top priority in our relationship – and in other ways our sex life is great.
But I worry he might leave me because of this and I don’t know how to help him.
DEIDRE SANDERS: Reassure your partner that although men might brag about lasting a long time, it is not as crucial to a woman as being touched and kissed in the right places.
Offer to show him those places. My e-leaflet How Men Can Last Longer should help to reassure him too.
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