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DEAR DEIDRE: MY girlfriend’s best mate is driving me crazy with lust, so what do I do?

I love my partner and would never do anything to hurt her. We are both 30 and have been together for five years.


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I’ve known her friend, who is 31, right the way through our relationship but when her brother passed away after an accident I cuddled her to comfort her and my whole world changed.

Holding her felt amazing and I started to feel differently about her.

I think about her 24/7 and we often find ourselves alone because she loves football and we frequently stay up watching it on TV after my girlfriend has gone to bed.

I sometimes see her glancing at me and I look at her but I have no idea how she feels.

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